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Tuesday, June 3, 2014

Love and Meaning of Life

When we think about love, usually we start thinking about something of noble, like the highest of human feelings. Actually I think that people are accustomed to love in a certain way. Often love is a feeling that is a consequence of how each baby is brought up in the family where was born. Parents do not teach their children to love everybody, the love that the baby will know it will be a restricted love. Sometimes can happen anyway that you encounter a person that makes you really feel crazy, only then you will experience something of stronger. And you will understand very fast why your parents treat you in that way, because love can be very dangerous. But can also happens that this education stops you from this beautiful research. 
You will love one person at a time, the one who you feel that understands you, and so you want to share with him or her everything, in a mental and sexual way, if you think that is really the right
person. But how to be sure about that? Usually your love is bound in what interests you have and the rest you don’t care. Maybe inside you know this is not the real love, but you do for convenience and for family education that I was mentioned also.  
But if you know that true love is freedom, communion, is infinite space and you can’t hold It between four walls, because is the strongest of the feelings, why you so easily satisfied?
The soul mate is the dream of your life, because deep down we are all looking for the same thing, to be in full communion with another person. That's why I think there is much more in the encounter between two people who feel attracted to each other, because in that attraction, there is the truth of our lives, there is the creation. And the lovers that look into their eyes, are near touching the mystery of the human existence. But they do not know how to perceive with the reason, even if  they feel something familiar, almost if they had already known each other. That strange feeling is because we are all the same thing, the same energy, but the problem is that often we are not yet able to recognize, because every person is dominated by many complex.
When we look at a sunset or a sunrise, we get excited because we are dealing with something that belongs to us and so we feel inexplicably happy.
The fight that there is in the world, reflects how people are far away from the real love. Human relationships are so complicated, because there are different levels of expressing the life that is intertwined with each other, so it can hardly happen that two people together can express the same life and the same heart. If this happens we consider it a miracle, an extraordinary event of rare beauty.
But you must be careful, to don’t necessarily make it happens, if not you will be disappointed, everything must happens by nature. This is the biggest thing, to understand the difference between love and desire to love. It certain that one needs the other, but many people think they have found the love, only because they need that. I know that everybody like romance. This is a big mistake and happens for many reasons. And you understand this difference? Try to think about.
Surely this has something to do with the meaning of life.

9 comments:

  1. Well, nice work Luciano! I think it is very difficult for me to understand in some places, but as for the end- romance is important - actually being romantic in the way couple make love, talk to each other and plan their future is the clue. Being prudent, gentle and romantic is the sense of being a couple. After my experience with my first non-marriage partner I found out that making plans with the partner u want to b is the most initial thing to be done and as I am in the period in which I have to make a step for getting marry I just have started to make plans with the person, who seems most proper for my ability to speak,win money, make new friends. So when making plan with a partner we want to share our life with we have to think if this is economicallu prudent, psychologically inteligent and productive.....And as for love - it is something everyone needs to have - security, food, family or very close and good friends - that is what basically love is compounded of in my view....hope u understand me and appreciate my comment! Thank u for ur creativity in writing in this blog!

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    1. Ciao Asya, thank you for your interesting comment. Of course when you make a path together with another person that you think you can love, is important to have things in common and to make a general plan. Of course not too in details and in everything the couple must agree, but at least with the most important values. In any case sometimes you make plans and things change or is better to say people changes. But the important thing is like I have written in my post, try to don't confuse your need for love with the fact to have found the real love. When a person have learn this is a big step for an inner enrichment and after for finding the real love!

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  2. Personally I value the love between friends more than even romantic love. Romantic love is important, of course, but it can also be destroyed easier than a friendship can. I think it's odd how if I say that I loe my best friend (a girl) I get jokes made about us. I'm not ashamed, but it is a shame. XD
    Romantic love is important, but I'm sure I don't know much about that. I only know that guarding your heart won't get you very far.

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    1. Ciao Amanda, thank you for your nice comment. In fact I was talking more about love in a relationship or how I can say romantic love. Is possible that sometimes love between friend last longer because is different, when you love a person as a partner maybe you involve too much of your emotions that you take very serious, and so from here also can comes problems, that of course can be resolve, but depends from the people. Now we are also in those modern time so. This is another big topic but thank you again for the hint, I will develop better in another post for sure!

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    2. Very good Luciano)
      And yes, you are right that the love can be different. There can be love to family, parents, friends, work, nature, love to wind touching our skin and many other things. Love is already our being.
      Talking about relations between man and woman, mostly they fall because love doesn’t mean to depend from each other. It doesn’t mean to dominate. Thousands of people fall because mix material side with love. Some think that with this person will feel comfortable, or it gives success, luck, money, stability, or this person have some character points what can fill their weaknesses..and many many other things, what is not love but only partnership. It means that you take the person because of something – the thing. Love doesn’t need a reason.
      Love is bliss and trust. It gives freedom. Gives you wings to fly. There are no words to express the love and the love has no words to express itself. When love arrives there is no fears, there are nothing around except love. Love becomes atmosphere where you live.
      We can’t create love as our mind wants. Try to change something or somebody. We can’t order a love or ask for love. It becomes our part/our life/our being and shows that we are a love as itself.

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    3. Ciao Jelena, thank you for your comment! Is very interesting the concept of love which you have expressed. Of course you are talking about an ideal love. How love should be, and I totally agree with you. However I think that is also normal that sometimes couples fall on the material things, because they have to deal with everyday, even if they dont want, and they can't andle it. You can express your love also with things, but this shouldn't be the only reason why you love a person, this is the point. At the end we are in this world and so we have to manage with what is around us, so love must be a mix I guess, an abstract feeling, but also concrete, something that involves your body and your soul, not only one, but both of them!

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  3. Thank you Luciano for your deeply opinion on such an important subject. For me a lot of useful and clever in this post.
    Yes, I agree that most often in the family not teach us what is true love and later we can confuse love with something else, with the attraction for example, or addiction or habit or just the desire to be loved. There are a lot of soil for thought

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  4. Ciao Katerina, thank you really for your comment. You have used few words but so meaningful! I think you have done and intelligent summary of everything I wanted to say. Of course I agree with you! Is so nice when a person can understand me so good!

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  5. Very nice comment from Jeļena Gončarova I like so!

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